Every marriage goes through difficult seasons, but sometimes the challenges signal something deeper than a rough patch. In February – often called the month of love – some couples reflect honestly on the state of their love. Knowing when a marriage has changed is not easy, but understanding the signs can help couples make informed decisions about the future. The attorneys at Kantaras Law know this and can offer guidance on what to look for when the love runs out.
Communication
One indicator is a breakdown in communication that goes beyond occasional arguments. When couples stop talking, avoid conversations, or find that every interaction leads to conflict, the foundation of the relationship may be eroding. Another tell-tale sign is when one spouse starts making major life decisions independently without consulting the other, it often reflects a disconnect in the relationship.
Emotion
Emotional distance can be just as significant as everyday disagreements. If a couple feels more like roommates than spouses, have lost interest in each other's lives, or find happiness when a spouse isn't around, these feelings deserve attention. While it's normal for passion to evolve over time, a complete absence of affection, intimacy or care for one another's wellbeing may indicate that a relationship has run its course.
Therapy
Some couples try to work through issues by going to therapy together. Sometimes the decision becomes clearer when a couple has genuinely tried to repair the relationship without success. If a couple has tried counseling, made efforts to reconnect, and addressed specific issues but nothing has improved, it may be time to consider that separation is the healthiest next step.
Legal separation offers a middle ground that allows couples to live apart and establish separate financial and parenting arrangements without divorcing. It provides space to reflect on the relationship while addressing practical concerns like child custody, support and asset division.
If you recognize these signs in your own marriage, consult with a family law attorney at Kantaras Law. Our skilled, thoughtful attorneys can help you understand options and take the first steps toward the future that serves your family best.